DIY– Do It Yourself
DYI– Do Yourself In
DYVI-Do Your Vendors In
I have seven children, so I totally understand the need to save where you can in the areas where you know how. In day to day life, we use our strengths or skills as ways to save. Perhaps your husband, dad, or boyfriend can change the oil, maybe you are a great seamstress and you can make clothing or you can bake breads. All of this is fabulous if you have the talent. If you are crafty and have abilities that will come in handy on your wedding day, by all means put your skilled hands to use. That is the meaning of a Do It Yourself bride.
What scares me is the bride or family who decides, even though they have no prior experience or skills, that they are going to be chief expert in charge of all things beautiful at the wedding. This is what you might call a Do Yourself In situation. Even for experts, designing stationary, baking wedding cakes, arranging flowers, photography, event coordination, and even providing music is a very stressful situation. Our work is very detailed and requires endless amounts of time before the event. Time you would probably rather be enjoying. Nothing is worse than being in the midst of a situation and feeling in over your head. Having too many projects or responsibilities leading up to your wedding can destroy your big day. Here are some things to consider:
- Choose projects that you are 100 percent certain your are capable of.
- Do a practice run of any designs you are making and time how long it will take for you to achieve the whole project.
- Choose projects that you can do in advance.
- You will also want to consider how much it will cost to set up a mini shop. The supplies list on most projects is very extensive and you really need to think about every little thing you will need.
- Next do you have the space to create and store your project? Make a plan on how the project is getting to the event and who is placing it.
- Do you have a vehicle to transport all of your items? You may need to rent a mini or cargo van.
Are you my psychic twin??!!!
http://www.sprout-flowers.com/2009/09/diy-flower-advice.html
great post with great insight and perspective! thanks for sharing!
Such a great post! I don’t think that enough DIYers consider that when you as the vendor are trying to do something nice you are staking your reputation if the plan isn’t properly executed.
Thank you for a great post. If only all brides would see the point. 🙂
This is an awesome post! Bookmarked!
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Holly,
Your blog is awesome, really informative and right on point. Speaking for myself, I would not allow the bride the option of the DIY set up, because as you point out, if the flowers are set-up incorrectly, or without water, or handled withoiut TLC in any respect; then it falls back on you. How do the guests know that there was an agreement between you and the bride? All they see are the results.
I do not know how you do it, between your family and your work, as well as growing flowers and writing this wondeful blog. I am exhausted just contemplating your life!
By the way, before you destroy all the boxes from your next event, the “half” boxes (41x 10 x 8) are great for a game of Giant Jenga for the 9 – 13 age group. Or adults too!
Happy New year David